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Core Belief Engineering
Articles
By Lisa Sidorowicz, B.A., M.A.,
B.Ed., Certified Practitioner and Instructor
Over-Analysis
The ability to analyze clearly and effectively is a necessary and useful
task of our intellectual mind. Core Belief Engineering (CBE), a highly
effective results-based belief change technology, views the subconscious
not as a singular entity but as a compartmentalization of multiple parts
or subpersonalities, each with its own beliefs, values, feelings, and views
of reality. One major intellectual part that everyone has is the "analyzer
part." If the analyzer part is healthy and aligned with one's conscious
mind, it can function as a powerful adjunct to the intellect, analyzing
and assisting in learning and perception, when needed. If, however, the
analyzer part is functioning excessively or compulsively, it can seriously
undermine the intellect, resulting in over-analysis and indecision, rigid
mind sets, perceptual distortions and limitations in comprehension and
learning.
People who "analyze everything to death" are usually replicating
an outdated, subconscious mental coping strategy created during childhood.
Their minds are on over-drive, constantly replaying scenarios, strategizing,
mind-reading, predicting, comparing, second-guessing, and cross-referencing
in order to figure things out, avoid failure, achieve goals, etc. This
frenetic mental activity can even occur during sleep. Most over-analyzers
have adopted the coping perspective of "I must be right" or "I
can't fail" in childhood, as a way to live up to parental expectations
and gain approval. As a result, over-active analyzer parts often find the
decision-making process excruciatingly difficult or impossible. When faced
with making a decision, they begin a process of gathering and analyzing
as much information as possible. Because each new additional piece of data
alters the whole context of what is being considered, the analyzer part
does not know when to stop analyzing. More and more information is gathered
in order to consider every angle and nuance of the situation. Hence, a
never-ending analysis loop is created which can block the ability to arrive
at a solution or make a decision.
"Living in one's head" is a common result of excessive analysis.
Many people over-analyze as a subconscious avoidance strategy. They keep
themselves so busy and preoccupied analyzing that they avoid experiencing
the emotions they learned in childhood are unacceptable or dangerous, such
as anger or weakness. In some cases, analysis is used subconsciously to
deny or keep at a distance other parts of the mind that may be storing
intense, repressed emotional pain. Disconnected from their emotions, these
people may feel dead from the neck down, cut off from their body, and blocked
from recognizing intuitions and other current conscious perceptions. If
left unchecked, such distraction- and avoidance-based analyzing can eventually
lead to emotional and physical symptoms (the most common being depression)
and dysfunctional relationships with the self and others.
Rigid, black and white thinking is another outcome of a compulsively analytical
mind. People whose analyzer parts have adopted the perspective of "I
must be right" as their coping strategy may believe that they know
what is best or right and others do not. They might also believe that there
is a right way and a wrong way to do things, and that making a mistake
or asking for help means they will be perceived as stupid. Consequently,
they may avoid trying new activities for fear of not mastering them immediately.
This rigid mind set will only seek information similar to its own logic,
criteria, and beliefs: any information that does not fit into specific
preconceived ideas and premises will be distorted, rejected, or invalidated.
It is common for rigidly analytical people to miss seeing a nuance in a
situation, to judge too quickly, or to leap to a conclusion based on previous
perceptions, mind sets, and decisions. When presented with new information,
such people may feel afraid, indifferent, irritated, or just unable to
understand. Indeed, such inflexible thinking severely limits learning and
the ability to communicate effectively.
One of the most interesting but rarely discussed facets of excessive analysis
is the inability to handle ambiguity. When the mind is structured around
black and white sorting categories, such as good and bad, acceptable and
unacceptable, logical or illogical, information that falls outside of these
dichotomies can create confusion and anxiety. When ambiguities are encountered,
they are usually labeled "illogical" because no other category
exists in which to place them. This black and white structuring severely
limits growth and learning, and can restrict one's ability to explore the
rich paradoxes of life.
The goal of Core Belief Engineering is to return an excessive or compulsive
analyzer part to healthy, balanced functioning. When the analyzer part
is performing optimally, it is a powerful partner to the conscious mind:
it aids in decision-making, performs clear analysis when required, and
knows when to stop analyzing. It also includes intuition and emotion in
its evaluations, along with rational and logical thinking. As a result,
the entire mind and all parts are more able to embrace the unknown, learn
new ideas, and develop beyond any previous limitations. Self-awareness
and personal efficacy are strengthened, and self-trust and confidence are
expanded. True, lasting change is possible.
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